My Dance of Fame, Again

I realize St. Patrick’s Day’s still ten days away, but my mother— a woman who celebrated her Irish heritage for the entire month of March—has been on my mind lately.

Unbothered by the gray skies, the yo-yo temperatures and the mud, on each of the month’s 31 days Irene Kane Buchanan cooked and sang and wore clothes in every shade of green found on the springtime fields of Kerry.  In honor of what would have been her 100th St. Patrick’s Day, I’m re-running my post from 2016, the last time she was with us, jigging her way through the month of March.


If not for St. Patrick’s Day, March would have little to recommend it.

But in my family, the holiday is a big deal. My mother and her siblings were born in America but my grandparents and older relatives had brogues as thick as spring fog. Determined to hang on to their culture, they maintained certain traditions including teaching children (especially little girls) to step dance.

My older sister and I took lessons from a woman named Bernadette, who was off the boat from County Kerry. Irish step dancing involves complicated footwork. In her Saturday morning classes, Bernadette called out cues I remember to this day. Heel, toe, heel, toe, heel, toe, hop one-two-three-four. A jig or a reel played in the background, helping little feet keep the beat.

The more difficult skill for me was to keep my hands at my sides, fingertips pointing to the floor. That is a defining aspect of traditional Irish step dance, intended to direct attention to the intricate steps. My little sister—who when I first started would have been two to my four—was too young to dance but old enough to keep me in line. Kate sat in the front row during practice sessions and called me out when my arms flew out from my sides. “Hands!” she’d chirp. “Hands!”

My Mom-made Irish step dancing dress.

Thoughout the year, but especially in March, Bernadette’s troupe danced at various events around town. Our mothers made our outfits, green dresses with gold fabric on the underside of the skirt, designed to show when we kicked our tap-shoed feet. Somehow I have hung on to one of mine all these years. There it is at right, in all its tiny glory.

Our shoes were tied with Kelly green ribbons. On our legs we wore black tights. A back sash was pinned from left shoulder to right hip.

Such was the costume we wore the night a dozen or so of us were to be the entertainment at the 1962 St. Patrick’s Day party sponsored by the Irish-American Club in my Massachusetts hometown.

We were the warm-up act for Ted Kennedy, who had just announced his first candidacy for United States Senate. His brother was president, of course, which made this gig a Very Big Deal to the older girls in the troupe. At the end of our performance we’d been instructed by Bernadette to skip down the stairs on the side of the stage—tallest to shortest—and shake the hand of the candidate, who was sitting in the front row. The oldest girl—my second cousin—had a small token of some sort to present to him as a gift from us.

I was four years old—too young to be nervous about anything but keeping my hands by my sides—but backstage jitters infected the big girls. We’d be dancing for the handsome president’s handsome younger brother, not to mention a hall packed with most of the Irish population of our hometown. The pre-teen dancers were wound up. Moments before we went on stage one of them sidled over to me and said the plan had changed, I was now going to lead the troupe off the stage and be the one to hand the gift to Mr. Kennedy.

I suspect this photo was taken a year or two after the famous Irish-American Club party. I am seated. My sister SuEllen is the fair-haired girl second from left.

I suspect this photo was taken a year or so after the famous Irish-American Club party. I am seated. My sister SuEllen is the fair-haired girl second from left.

So out we went and dance we did and after we took our bow I led the way off the stage. Whenever my mother told this story she’d put her hand over her heart and exclaim that her relief at our fine performance gave way to dismay that her headstrong little Brenda was leading the march to Ted Kennedy instead of bringing up the rear.  My memory is that he was very nice and people took pictures of all of us, then my older sister and I were whisked home because by then it was long past our bedtime.

The next day a telegram arrived at our house (yep, an actual telegram.)  It read: My brother tells me you are the best step-dancers ever. STOP. Congratulations! STOP. It was signed JFK. Now that impressed me. I may not have quite grasped who the man in the front row of the audience was, but I knew JFK was President of the United States.

I was probably 12 before I learned that the telegram had been sent by my uncle, John Francis Kane.

Happy St. Patrick’s Day to all of the readers of this blog. My gift to you is this link to the fabulous McNiff Irish Dancers, performing in 1958. These dancers were the real deal. They performed on the Ed Sullivan show, not merely at hometown St. Patrick’s Day dinners. But we danced this same traditional style. Note that except for the parts when the piece called for them to clasp hands, the dancers’ fingers are pointed right at their tap shoes.

And this time around, here’s a more modern troupe, this time little girls lined up oldest to youngest, as were we.

Brenda Buchanan brings years of experience as a journalist and a lawyer to her crime fiction. She has published three books featuring Joe Gale, a newspaper reporter who covers the crime and courts beat. Her short story, MEANS, MOTIVE, AND OPPORTUNITY was included in BLOODROOT: BEST NEW ENGLAND CRIME STORIES 2021.  Brenda is hard at work on new projects. FMI, go to

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12 Responses to My Dance of Fame, Again

  1. Dick says:

    Lovely, Brenda! Thanks for the tale . . .

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  3. chickadee04287 says:

    Wonderful! That all put a smile on my lips!

  4. maggierobinsonwriter says:

    What a treasure to have something your mother made!

  5. Anonymous says:

    I’m gonna be humming in my head all day long…mascarpone imagining 31 shades of green!

  6. Anne Cass says:

    Since when does imagining become marscapone?😝😝

  7. Anne Cass says:

    Imagining…not marscapone…😆

    • Brenda Buchanan says:

      I wish I could say I knew what you meant, but I was shaking my head until I saw your follow up notes. Enjoy the Irish music in your head today!

  8. Pat S. says:

    Loved the story and watching the dancers. Brings back fond memories of Irene. Jan will raise a Guiness tonight to your Mom!

    • Brenda Buchanan says:

      Thanks, Pat! I am so glad you knew her, and experienced first hand her love of St. Patrick’s Day.

  9. L.C. Rooney says:

    What a perfectly charming story! Thanks for sharing it, Brenda!

  10. jselbo says:

    What an exciting time and family. Loved the reading

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